Services

What we do, in one overview.

We offer couples counseling, marriage counseling, relationship counseling, relationship coaching, family counseling, mediation and couples retreats. At their core, these are all the same thing: the conversation you can no longer have alone as a couple. Below you'll find what each term actually means and which format fits when.

Couples Counseling

Couples counseling with us means: you come together, we sit down with you, listen, and sort through with you what's going on. There's no schema, no homework. We listen differently because we sit together at the table, both a female and a male perspective, and we hear different things.

Marriage Counseling

When you are married, what you need to clarify quickly becomes more than just „us". There are expectations, families, often financial and legal topics. Marriage counseling, for us, is couples counseling with the awareness that the framework around you can be more stable, or wobblier.

Relationship Counseling

Relationship counseling is the broadest term. It fits unmarried couples, couples with separate households, couples in a relationship that isn't fully defined yet. What we do doesn't change because of that: we listen, sort with you, find words for what stands between you.

Relationship Coaching

Some couples don't look for a classic counseling setting, but for a structured process with clear interim goals. Relationship coaching is the right word, in our view, when you're not in a crisis but at a concrete point. Maybe a decision is approaching, maybe a transition, maybe a new chapter of life.

Family Counseling

When the whole family is affected, when children, grandparents or patchwork constellations sit at the table, we speak of family counseling. On request, we include children or other family members, depending on age and conflict. We discuss the framework together beforehand, so it's clear for everyone what we're addressing.

Mediation

Mediation is a structured process in which conflicts between parties are clarified without anyone „winning". Thomas is a registered mediator. If you're in a conflict that needs decisions, not just understanding, mediation is often the more fitting format than open-ended couples counseling.

Couples Retreat

A weekend away from daily life, in a small group, with a calm setting and clear structure. The couples retreat is for couples who want to step out of the rut, without committing to weekly therapy. We announce dates on request, the group is intentionally kept small.

Which format fits you?

You don't have to decide that yourself. Write us a few lines about where you are right now, and we'll suggest which setting we think makes sense. Sometimes that turns out to be a couples session, sometimes mediation, sometimes something else. We agree on the framework together, before anything binding starts.

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